Sis, before you let that “I’m alone, I have nobody” regular thought hit you again, you should consider the following things I’m about to say.
Reminiscing about your loneliness every morning and night in your bed will only make you more miserable.
Sitting around with your girlfriends recounting past failed relationships, analysing present prospective prospects and fixing a date in faith could be a not so exciting exercise.
Also manipulation-thepart you tried to deceive some guy into marrying you and it boomranged and
Desperation–the part you started acting irrational; really crazy anxious.
The result has been the same...
All these might have resulted in your being more desperate, helpless and thoughtless or even giving up on trying. The people who even feel more trapped are the Christian sisters. They can’t seem to understand why God would not just snap his fingers
and make it happen like yesterday. Some even have faith in denial.Please have faith, be expectant but don’t deny the reality at hand.
Sister, faith works hand in hand with love.
Our love for God should be true and genuine. It shouldn’t be just because we want something and when we get it, we elope.
Love for your neighbour is equally a very important commandment. The forgiveness and love of God for those whoever has hurt or denied or disappointed you in past.
So, how long will you sit here and wait? An idle mind is the devil’s workshop. Make up your mind and stay on a decision. You might have tried to take more action but this led to more stupid mistakes. So what’s the way forward?
Forward or progress does not necessarily mean you practically are moving. You can be on a spot at the moment in your life while you make crucial corrections so as to make the journey ahead easier and quicker. You can even have a response from
your environment while you are there making these vital changes to your life. But never halt your correctional exercise just because your heart desires are beginning to suffice.
Be at peace with God.
Stop saying those prayers in hurts and disappointments. Stop going to church out of duty and yet you feel bad that he hasn’t intervened regarding your matter. Get real. Get on your knees and let it out.
Be at peace with ‘Men’
Sister, let go. Forger’it. If no be your own, no be your own. Even with God, when a servant of his throws down the towel and calls it quits. He lets them go and get another with double anointing.If you lost... then it’s an opportunity to get better and more. Ask God. He gives, you just grab. Don’t settle for less. You deserve the best. Do not steal.
Be at peace with yourself
Quit the self blaming. Fine you should find your faults, note them, correct them and move on but don’t keep reminding yourself of how if you had done this or that you would have been married. Stop criticizing yourself. It will affect the way other people perceive you. If you get into another relationship like this you
will criticize yourself out of it. Forgive yourself and move on.
People,Jesus works. Jesus rocks. He’s the rock of ages which if you build your life on you can’t be destroyed or blown away by life’s treacherous winds.
If indeed, you want to make him your Lord and saviour. Please pray this prayer:
“Dear heavenly Father, I come to you in the name of Jesus.
Your word says “he that comes to me I will by no chance cast out”. So I know you won’t cast me out.You said in your word that “anyone who calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved” (Acts 2:31).
I ask that you save and deliver me now. I confess my sins to you right now.
I accept and confess Christ Jesus my Lord and Savior.
Henceforth it is not my life I live anymore but yours”.
Amen.
Thank you for reading. Next week!
Esther;
mailshehelpz@yahoo.com
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