Stop giving ear to old wives fables
- It is not too late for Love, at 30. You should not give up on love.
- You are not old. Do not let anyone refer to you as old, irrespective of your size.
- Be fair to you. I don’t believe you should cut down your standard of living because you are in need of a partner; especially if you are not able to cope. Remember God’s grace is very much available for you. Live your life the decent way you ought to. It’s not by like that jo.
Don’t stop your life. Continue on a whole new level.
- Add to yourself- Learn something new; something you’ve always wanted to know about or do.
- Pick up your long desired hobby- Karate, Swimming, tennis, poetry...sky-diving(if you can afford to)
- You should attempt that long desired project. Yes take the bull by the horn. Make a go for it. Give it a shot.
- Buy Assets. If you have money. Tie your money down into something lasting and valuable. Girl, talk to a financial consultant.
If you have not, discover yourself and pursue what matters.
- Find your gift. I mean that area you have the grace to do things with ease and people find it very helpful. Identify your gifts and use them.
- Sought purpose from your maker. And if you have, start living it, especially if its time. It’s who you are. It’s what makes you happy.
Take care of your body.
- Exercise- You don’t have to join a gym now. You could do simple but helpful exercises like jogging, swimming, bicycle riding, stairs, and others. You could get one of those workout DVDs.
- Start eating well and healthy- Do fruits and vegetables more often. They do more good to your body. And drink lots of water.
- Look Good. Above all wear what’s comfortable for you. Communicate the real you.
Take care of your spirit
- Spend quality time and quantity of time with God. Who else would show you the purest and most genuine love? How else would you survive if you don’t draw strength and power from him? You are a product of God. You need to connect with him to exist.
- Study the word. If you are keen on getting a grasp about the ‘abundant life’ then you should study your bible. You can find the thoughts and intentions of God for you. You can never miss it if you study the scripture and obey.
- Speak the word into your life more often. A man who is born again is a product of the word. The word is necessary for your well being and growth-first spiritually and then all round.
- Pray in the spirit- more often. Ride on the tides of the spirit. Let it take you places- faster and beyond your strength can. You will be surprised and grateful.
- Pray- pray, pray. It is the way to thrive, conquer and succeed.
- Spend quality time alone- You might not have so much of this when you are married. ‘Me-Time’ is good for you. You know; time to meditate, recoup and all.
- Be hopeful. Be positive. It affects your world. You attract what you project.
- Have Faith. Faith is a new level entirely. You can acquire faith, when you hear the word of God more often.
Get Involved
- If you are more comfortable with these, join a department in church or a community cause. But you know, the number one purpose is to serve.
- Join social networks and clubs. Meet new people and have a nice time every now and then. Having a balanced social life is quite essential.
- Be Nice. Quit the nastiness. It’s not chic- at all. Guys don’t dig it. They dig polite, sweet and confident. Now, that’s attractive.
- Be vigilant. Be Smart. Shine ya eye...I mean keep it open for likely prospects. *winkz*
- No yeye flings. No jokes. No time wasting with not ready, unserious boys or play boys.
- Be selfish with 'IT'. Seriously. Don’t let anyone fool you again that ‘if you give him some 'butty', he’ll commit’. Tell him to go hug a transformer instead.
- Do not snatch, steal or share someone else’s man, especially if he’s married or in a very committed relationship that you are aware of. It is so unhealthy-It might boomerang.
- Don’t be fake. Be real with the man you eventually get involved with. I mean let him know the real you. I think he might catch you if you are trying too hard to be this perfect chick, so he thinks you are the perfect one. If you are ‘you’, and he likes you like that, then you are ‘the perfect one’.
- Do not wish evil for anyone. Hate not. Dislike less. Revenge not. Evil begat evil. Most times, payback is not your duty. You should leave it to God.
- Forgive. Oh yes! Forgive. ‘Release’ so you that are released. ‘Let go’ so that you are free. It’s all for you. You need it for your advancement.
So,
Have a
nice life.
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